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You have the success. You haven't met her yet. 7 tools to know your type, where to meet women like her, and when to go exclusive.

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Fair TrialM. · day 90

7 of 8 must-agree questions answered

  • ChildrenAligned
  • TravelConflict
  • Money styleNot yet known

Who it's for

You're between 30 and 45 and you've built something. Money and work are sorted. Meeting a woman you genuinely connect with isn't.

Founders

10 years of long weeks. Dating got whatever was left.

You give finding her the attention you gave the company.

Executives

All day people want something from you. You can't tell who wants you.

You meet women who'd choose you without the title.

Technical founders

Small talk costs you more than a hard problem.

You go where conversation comes easily to you.

Introverts

A loud bar on a Friday is the worst room of your week.

You meet her in places where you're at your best.

Dating apps

Matches, first dates, nothing that lasted.

Fewer dates, with women you'd actually marry.

72%

of ultra-wealthy single men say success made it harder to find a genuine partner.

41%

can't tell if a woman is interested in them or in their money.

+58%

more men asking for a matchmaker than a year before.

72% and 41%: Selective Search survey of 359 affluent American men, March 2026. +58%: Selective Search, reported by DatingNews, 2025.

Not for short-term dating.

Your report

See yourself the way she will. How you come across, what you bring, what drives you, and the women who fit your life.

Relationship Report cover, for a founder, 38, Warsaw: six chapters from strengths and blind spots to where love grows Page 2: strengths, like keeping his word on small things, and blind spots, like work filling the evenings Page 4: what drives him in love, building something that lasts, being trusted completely, a calm home base Page 5: partners who fit him, grounded and warm, or ambitious in her own field, and what to look for

Her report

Then read hers. Her type, what drives her, and how you both fit.

Partner Report cover: what drives her, what she looks for in a man, where she spends time, how you fit
Page 2: her type in one line, a warm, natural, cultivated woman of 28 to 35, and what drives her Page 6: where the two of you fit, and what to talk about early, like his 120 travel days a year

The journey

One man's 90 days: a founder, 38, in Warsaw.

  1. 1

    Clarity

    Type
  2. 2

    Her

    Type Personality
  3. 3

    You

    Standards CheckPhoto Rating
  4. 4

    Places

    Meeting Places
  5. 5

    Trust

    Real Check
  6. 6

    Decision

    Fair Trial

  7. Your wife

1 · Clarity

Type

Part of your taste in faces is yours alone. This learns yours. First the life you want, then you tap the faces you're drawn to.

71%of the 38 faces he liked were one look: natural and minimal. In his interview he had said elegant and styled.
Type: he taps the faces he is drawn to, 12 to a crowd Type card: his type, natural and sporty, 71% of his likes Her in one sentence, with his must-haves and what he can let go

2 · Her

Type Personality

What to check in her over the first dates. The 5 traits that count in a partner, and how each one shows on a date.

2conflicts with his plan, found before a first date: his 120 travel days a year, and children by 2029.
Five traits to check by date 3, each with what it looks like Two conflicts with his plan, decided one by one Date log: the five traits scored after date 1

3 · You

Standards Check

See how 20 women like the one you want see you today. Standards stated by 30 women who match her age, country and values.

6 → 11women of 20 on his panel said yes to a first date: 6 on 18 November, 11 on 15 January.

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You today: 20 women of his type rate him on 10 qualities, with his blind spot Her standards: what 30 women like her weigh most His number and his moves: 6 of 20, target 11 of 20

3 · You

Photo Rating

9 of 20women put his photo on stage first. 14 of 20 would drop the selfie in the car.
Photo Rating6 photos · 60 votes on attractive, smart, trustworthy

Photo 3 first, photo 4 out

  • Photo 3Speaking on stageBest
  • Photo 1Hiking with friends, faces blurredGood
  • Photo 4Selfie in the carWeakest
  • VotersWomen 30 to 38, Poland

4 · Places

Meeting Places

A 90-day rotation of dinners, galleries, runs and evenings you host, in your city.

6places in his 90-day rotation. The first: a singles dinner for 6, Friday 13 November.
His 90-day rotation: weekly dinners, a gallery, a 5 km run, monthly circles Her profile and his, the input for the places This week: a singles dinner for six, Friday 19:00

5 · Trust

Real Check

1 of 12warning signs for K., a mild one. Verdict: Clear, and a video call before Thursday.
Verdict: Clear, with the next step, a video call before Thursday Real check: his own reverse image search, no hits Learn plan: what to ask her, and on which date

6 · Decision

Fair Trial

Go exclusive, or are you wasting each other's time? Track the 5 things most closely tied to how good the relationship feels to you, every week, then decide on day 90.

7 of 8must-agree questions answered with M. by day 90. One left, money style, so he continues to 3 April.
Day 90: his decision, with every number from 13 weeks Early read after date 3: start a fair trial, or not her Week 6: passion, love and compatibility, and the dealbreakers known

Day 90 · exclusive

Your wife

The method

In 2019 Frederic described the woman he wanted on 4 pages. In December 2021 he matched with a woman who met every line on them. Since then he has taken founders and executives through the same method.

4

pages to describe her

14

days from knowing what he wanted to their first match

6

months to engaged

Source: Dating Funnels for Business Owners, preface, January 2023

Every report and tool on this page comes from the method in his book.

Principles

Clarity first

4 pages on her, before the first face

One type

1 in 45 of the faces in the library

Said versus picked

71% of his likes, against his own words

Day-90 decision

3 January, on the calendar from day 1

Objective feedback

20 women of his type, scored out of 7

Nothing left to luck

6 places in 90 days, 1 evening he hosts

Frederic Bodin

Frederic BodinCo-founder, author

BogdanCo-founder

Coaching

A call with Frederic: a review of your report, or your day-90 decision.

Reports and tools

Photo report

How you come across, from your own photos.

Type report

Your type and the traits to check in her, from the faces you pick.

All 7 tools

180 days of every tool on this page.

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